"In their divorce/annulment proceedings, the dirty laundry of their marriage has been aired... and most of it doesn't shine a very good light on Toomer's wife, Yola Dabrowski. According to Toomer, Yola committed fraud when marrying him (and shouldn't get a dime of his money) because she refused to change her name to Toomer, refuses to have a big family like they discussed -- hell, refusing to even have one kid as she had 3 or 4 abortions without his knowledge or consent, won't cook, clean or take medication for her depression, and most egregious of all, disrespected his manhood. "
